Why do guys on dating apps often just first message "hey" or "hey how are you" instead of being more creative and unique? How do they think being a copycat will stand out?

Last Updated: 02.07.2025 14:01

Why do guys on dating apps often just first message "hey" or "hey how are you" instead of being more creative and unique? How do they think being a copycat will stand out?

Because it's a standard phrase to start communication.

BTW all the girls start their messages with a similar simple greeting.

People choose a partner by sexual attractiveness in the first place.

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If she is not creative in her messages, no guy would care either.

That's not an interview for a stand-up artist.

If a hot girl pays attention to me it doesn't really matter what she says. Her attention is enough.

You found a love potion, and your friend tried to use it on an attractive popular girl, but he accidentally dropped it on the neighbors dog. Now the dog won't stop following him. How would you help him?

It's one of the reason why pickup trainings suck.

Of course, farther on when you start chatting moreover dating being smart and creative will really impress, but only as a SUPPLEMENT to attractive look.

No country for ugly people…

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